Tuesday, October 27, 2009

the unusual client type

this evening, i had my first taste of dealing with youth.
was the air-con too cold for my comfort? how come i felt my leg shaking...
was their communication (or the lackoff it) the beginning of the problem... have they forgetten how to respect each other and to others? i didn't stop them from using their handphone. i should have. i will lay down rules next time if they come down again.

maybe it was the first session- that's why i didn't "instruct" them.
maybe it was the first session- i should have laid down my rules.

did i get emotional in there?

i know i was firm...firmer than usual...

"when i speak to her, u zup in; when i speak to you, she zup in; that's not very respectful...i could have interrupt you two when u speak... did i?!"

"did i interrupt you when either of you was using the phone?NO!, that would be disrespectful!"...

"i dun wanna to be the middleman...it's not easy to be the middle man...try becoming one and u know it's not the best position to be in, so i would like both parties to tell each other."

guess what,
one more child behaviour/parenting/non-fin client tmr.

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